My husband is having a difficult time at work. He has worked there for many years and he has been passed over for a promotion time and time again. He wants to get out of his job and do something else, but feels trapped as he has no formal education to go elsewhere. He talks of the disrespect, the being taken advantage of and the secrets that is so called friend coworkers have done. I can relate. It was done to me by him. Those exact feelings. Without being critical, I tried to gently let him know that I understand and that in time his feelings will subside.
I can't help but think if karma is real it is hitting him hard. I love him and I sincerely hope he finds his way. I am accutely aware I can not fix him or his issues. I sit, I watch, I try to say encouraging things, I wait.
This is so different from the old me before the affair. I woud have gotten deeply involved and worked to fix it all. No longer, not mine to fix. I never fixed it before anyway. Things happen to people, they feel horrible sometimes. In the end sometimes the otherside is much better. I will let what ever it is to happen, happen.
If all falls apart then it does. I don't have control. I am so glad I don't.
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